“I grew up with no boundaries or allowance of emotions, and didn’t feel safe to be myself. So naturally, I felt invisible. Because of this, I was disconnected from my emotions, didn’t see my empathy as a superpower, and took the common route of learning about life intellectually — even earning a Philosophy degree.  So, the first time I heard Ainslie talk extensively about wounded empaths and narcissists, I felt something shift in me. I realized I was a wounded empath, and not invisible to narcissists or abusers. I saw the roles I played in these relationships and it stunned me. 

Ainslie’s teachings opened the door to me knowing myself. And I remembered I’d been a very spiritual child. Thanks to his work, I feel so much more empowered and I’ve healed my past-life fear of Self-Expression. I no longer feel invisible, and a few wonderful, healthy connections have been made. I even learned I’d been a student of Socrates in a past life.

I also found where I belong – in The Soul World Membership Community as our moderator. Now, I’m also able to be my authentic spiritual self, allowing my mind and spirit to work happily together learning new things every day and sharing them. 

Know thyself, Socrates said. And I am so grateful for Ainslie teaching me how to do it.” 

- Jan K.